NO FOOL!!!

So I went on over to a fellow blogger's page, Mikki, during my attempt to procrastinate on packing up my dorm...lol. She had an interesting blog entry, Text Message Madness. I will summarize her post:

One day while relaxing, Mikki received a post from Jason*. She hadn't heard from him in a cool minute. So they exchange a few pleasantries, the classic hello what good and what not. He eventually invites her over for dinner,but since she was not up for the hour drive she invited him over. Once that was decided, she informed him that she wasn't up for a sexual visit. She just wanted to chill. Needless to say, by the end of the text message conversation Jason wanted some sexual attention, and since it wasn't going to happen, he had nothing else to say.

Go figure. I am not saying that every man out there only hits a girl up, just to see what could go down. I understand that there are cases where someone just popped into your mind and you thought to your self..Gee I wonder how so and so are doing, let me hit them up. I've done it before.
However, that isn't the issue I want to address. What I'm talking about is that guy who I haven't talked to in months because the last time we had a conversation, he wanted something that I wasn't up to giving.So therefore steered clear of any communication, but now he has a offer I "cannot refuse"....HAHAH.. Even for those that did do something in the past, that does not mean that a 6 month later, a text message is going to get you anywhere. Like I mentioned in Mikki's blog:

I know I am late on the uptake, but i know where you are coming from on the whole, “I haven’t talked, text, email, im, myspace, facebook this guy in months, he must want something.” I know it isn’t cool to just assume, but after a few txt messages, your assumption is usually validated. A lot of the guys that hit me, are guys I didn’t even do anything with, but they have the whole “she’s the one that got away” mentality. So they hit me months later, as if i have changed my mind. NO FOOL!!!..lol anyway..great post.

Short little story. I was talking to this guy back in August of 2007. He was cool, we hung out a few times. The most we did was kiss. So some time in September, we were texting back and forth. You know, the hello, how are you and what not. Then out of the blue he asked, Will you have sex with me. I believe I looked at that text message for about 5 minutes. I had to make sure I wasn't seeing things. I text him back asking if he was serious and if he was,NO!!! Along with a bit of my two cents. Anyway after that, he did not hit me back up. So come January of 2008, this fool hits me up like hey. Apparently I was running through his mind, and he wanted to just see what's up. When it all came down to it, he wanted to get some. Apparently he must of thought that I would change my mind. Nope, that sure wasn't going to happen.

I can't ask why do men do that, because I already know why, plus it isn't just men that do it. People get their urges and what not, and start to going through their phonebook for past hook ups, but honestly a text message from out the blue months later is not cool. And if I said no from the get go, what makes you think I am going to turn around and say yes. I'm not playing hard to get, I jut don't want you.

Through my eyes I find it to be disrespectful, who I am doesn't matter because all that person sees in me is a possible way to rid themselves of sexual frustration. And to add more insult to injury, they felt that a text message was an appropriate way to ask for "some".No Fool!!!! If its that serious, they need to get a bottle of lotion and say hello to Mr. Left or Right hand.